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If you've had the opportunity to read any guides dealing with male sexuality, chances are you've heard of the prostate gland. It produces some of the fluids that are contained in the semen, giving the semen it's whitish color. One thing that you may not have heard, is that it can be a source of great sexual pleasure when massaged properly. Considered by many to be the male equivalent of the G spot, a prostate massage is easy to perform and your lover will thank you for it.
Like any form of anal play, prostate stimulation isn't for everyone. Some people associate the anus with feelings of dirtiness or shame, while others just don't respond well to this form of stimulation. If you decide to try prostate manipulation, you need to respect your inhibitions -- and those of your partner -- by taking things slow.
- Start with a hot shower so you and your
partner will feel clean.
- Don't just jump into prostate stimulation
-- enjoy a little foreplay first!
- Use lots of lubricant! Click for some recommended anal lubes.
- To find the prostate gland, reach down
between your partner's legs, insert your index finger
into the anus to the second knuckle and press forward,
in a firm "come hither" motion. You'll be able to feel
the prostate through the front part of the rectal wall.
- Press gently. If you or your lover likes
the sensation, press a little more firmly. You or your
lover might enjoy a "shunting" sensation, experienced
by smooth, rapid insertion and removal of one or more
fingers.
- Try using a sex toy! While many women's
G-Spot toys work well for prostate stimulation, you'll
definitely want to try the Wild
Thing which has been designed specifically for prostate
stimulation. If you want the ultimate toy and money is
no object try the Ooh-La-La.
- If you find you don't enjoy the sensation
of prostate stimulation alone, try pairing it with genital
massage or oral sex.
Your response to prostate stimulation depends on your particular physiology. Some men experience crashing orgasms when they stimulate their prostate glands, while others simply enjoy a great deal of pleasure. Some men don't enjoy the sensation at all, while others could take it or leave it. If you are unsure about your feelings toward this type of sensation, try it! If you don't like it, you don't have to do it again
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